Passed away peacefully on April 4, 2026, at Te Nikau Grey Hospital.
Dearly loved wife of the late Wit (Richard) loved mother of Vicki, Sally, Tania, and Snow. Loved grandmother of Steven, Benjamin, Brianna, Leia, Nikita, Charlee, Jesse, Jayden, and Samual and great-grandmother of Lucy, and Malakai, loved sister of Dulcie.
Messages to the Alexander Family, 50 Davie Street, Hokitika 7810 or can be left on her tribute page at www.thompsonfd.co.nz
The family invite you to a time of remembrance for Pam at Stumpers Bar & Café, 98 Revell Street, Hokitika, Thursday, April 9, from 2pm.
Pamela Jane Alexander (nee Henderson)
April 4, 2026
To Pams family, Big hugs to you all at this sad time.Always enjoyed a chat with your Mum.Deepest sympathy from Lyn and Erl Robinson, Kumara Junction
To the Alexander Family..please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss
Sharon and Rob Bradley
Much love and sympathy to the family such a very lovely person ❤️
Well Pamela I really have no reason to come to Hoki anymore and I will miss that I will miss our discussions on what Tom and I and you and wit used to do and the laughs we had
My love to your family
From my family
Colleen Rogers
Hi Colleen,
Thankyou for your kind words, you and Tom were always good friends.🩷
We gave her the send off she deserved.
Alexander Family
Very sincere condolences to Pams family. We have nothing but the very best memories of Pam and Wit and the friendship we shared. An excellent lady lost to the community she loved. Areta and Russell Gugich
Thanks Russell, was a great gathering today, good to see you and all the best to Rita.
Alexander family
My dear friend Pamela who I have known all my life and was the reason I came back to Hoki to visit we had such happy memories with you and me Wit and Tom
My condolences and love to you all
Pamela Alexander thanks for the memories
Thanks Lyn, great service today.
Mum is at peace.
To all the family. So very sorry for your loss. Pam was a lovely lady. Fond memories when she had the shop.
Deepest sympathy to all of Pam’s family
Deepest condolences to the Alexander Family. Your mum a Beautiful Lady who I had many yarns with. R.I.P Pam fly high Wits waiting for you 😇🌻🌺
Sorry to hear of Pam’s passing.
My thoughts are with you all. Jill 🙏
So sorry for your loss, Vicki Sally Tania and Snow.
It’s hard to loose your Mum, My thoughts are with you all at this sad time.
Deepest sympathy to Pam’s family.
Kind thoughts, Chris and Di Ward
Thanks Sally
End of an era, appreciate you posting.
Sincere condolences to all Pams family
Gerald and Janet Keats
My deepest sympathy to you all. Have many great memories of Pam and all the Henderson family.
Thanks Russell, was a great gathering today, good to see you and all the best to Rita.
Alexander family
Condolences to Pam’s family. Thinking of you all at this sad time. I have fond memories of Pam and with.
So sorry for your loss. Had many great times with Pam during my New World days many decades ago.
RIP Pam.
Thinking of all )ams family and friends at this sad time
Thinking of all Pams family and friends at this sad time
Thinking of all Pam’s family at this sad time, R.I.P Pam.
Thinking of you all at this sad time. We are going to miss you Pam you were a lovely lady. RIP Pam
Sorry to hear of this sad news xx Pam was an icon in her own right and loved to have chats with her over the years we knew her and Wit. My sincere condolences to the entire family on this sad occasion. Rest with Wit now Pam xx
R.I.P Pam, one of the best checkout chicks ever. Condolences to all your family.
Thanks Sally
End of an era, appreciate you posting.
My deepest condolences. I have great memories of working with Pam at New World Hoki back in the day!
RIP Pam.
Our sincere condolences to all Pam’s family. There will be a big hole in your hearts with her loss.
Sid, Carol and daughters. 🌹
Our deepest condolences to the family, a lovely lady
So sad to hear this. Pam was a beautiful lady. I used to love her coming into Stumpers with all the ladies. R.I.P. Pam. Condolences to all the family
So sorry for your loss. Had many great times with Pam during my New World days many decades ago.
RIP Pam.
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Deepest sympathy Charlee and
Jesse at the loss of your dear
Grandmother
RIP Pam you were a very special lady, a fantastic teacher. Deepest condolences to your family
Sympathies to Vicki, Sally, Tania and Snow. Pam was a lovely lady and Mum and Dad had a lot of fun with Pam and Wit back in the days of the fire brigade.
Thinking of you all. RIP.
I will miss you my long time friend. My thoughts are with all your family.
To Pam’s family
Our sincere.condolences on Pam’s passing.Had quite a few drinks and laughs with Pam and Wit,a great couple,Pam ŵas a lovely lady and will be sorely missed.Mike and Kath Gray.
Thanks Mike
Appreciate your kind words, hope you are well.
Alexander family
A lovely lady and a hard worker who will be missed by many. RIP. Condolences to the family xxx
So sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. Reunited with her beloved Wit. Condolences to the family xxx
Pam will be missed by many, her sense of humour was a great gift. Enjoy all your happy and fun-filled memories.
Condolences to Pam’s family, Pam it was a pleasure to have you as my supervisor at NW, the laughs we had made it all that much easier. Rest in peace.
So sad to hear this. Pam was a beautiful lady. I used to love her coming into Stumpers with all the ladies. R.I.P. Pam. Condolences to all the family
Thinking of Pams loved ones.o have Fond memories of Pam xx
I will miss you my long time friend. My thoughts are with all your family.
Thinking of you all. Great memories of Pam growing up with Sally, getting into loads of trouble, running riot through Rowena Gowns
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Hi Lisa,
Thanks so much Lisa. Was a great service and send off, after match to be proud of. Popped in and spoke to your mum today, appreciate you 🙏❤️😘
Sally
Deepest sympathy to Pam’s family, fond memories.
That’s sad, always enjoyed Pam and the Henderson family, their parents too. Sister of Tom & Alison (our cousin) RIP another goodie passed.. 💕Love to all family.
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Sorry for your loss. A lovely lady – loved her laugh. She will be flying high with Wit now.
To Tania, Ben, Charlee Anne Jones, Jesse Jones and the wider family. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you all at this sad time. Was so good to reconnect with you all on the 21st. Pam’s last big outing. Take care of each other. Draw strength from the fun memories that you hold of your mum and Nan and the comfort of knowing she is with Wit again. Arohanui xxxx
Condolences to all the family on the passing of Pam. Our thoughts are with you
Deepest sympathy to Pam’s family
Our thoughts are with you all.
Fond memories of our wonderful neighbor & friend.Her chocolate éclairs & potato top pies were superb. May you now rest in peace.
Fond memories of our wonderful neighbor & friend.Her chocolate éclairs & potato top pies were superb. May you now rest in peace.
My deepest sympathy to all of the Alexander family, am thinking of you at this sad time. I have fond memories of the days when her & Wit took over Bootes Milk Bar from Allan & Joyce Boote, with the Juke box playing in the side room. Those were the “good old days”.
Rest in peace Pam.
Pam was a great staff member at New World, and became a true great friend. Many happy memories of Pam and Wit will be with us forever. Love to the family from Neil & Christine Buchanan.
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Deepest sympathy to all the family. Thinking of you all . Pam was a lovely lady . Bidge and Col Jefferies
Our sympathy goes out to Vicki, Sally, Tania and Snow and all the Henderson families at this sad time of Pam’s passing
My condolences to you all at this sad time of Pam passing.
Pam was such a lovely lady RIP Pam xx ❤️
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Thanks Alison,
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Pam was such a lovely lady. Wit was a good bastard. So sorry for your loss.
Sincere condolences
Fond memories when they ran the milk bar in Sewell St opposite the old Road Services
Many memories paying pool as Weill
RIP Pam
Deepest sympathy to all Pam’s family RIP dear Pam ❤️❤️
Our sympathy’s go to Pam and Wits families on their sad loss.They made the best Hamburgers ever. Our 3 legged mouse catcher has missed them, but thanks to Jan and Muzz she has somewhere to visit
Condolences to all of Pam’s family.
Great to see you as always, love you. ❤️
To all of Pam’s family – much love and sincere condolences to you all at this sad time! Mum always had time for a chat and a laugh, with a good sense of humour! Back with dad ( Wit) again. ❤️
Sally, Vicki, Tania and Snow, sorry to hear of your dear Mums passing. Love to you all.
Sad to hear of your Mums passing, gosh I go back to 1964 -I used to frequently go to their Milkbar for milkshakes and a chat when pregnant with my first born then caught up with Pam often until I moved from Hokitika in 1988.
Kind regards to all the families, Margaret Reece