Died suddenly on August 23rd,2021. Much loved wife of Warren, loved mother and mother-in-law of Jade and Ann and Kate and Jordan, cherished Nana of Oliver and Eleanor. Loved daughter of Neville and Diana, daughter-in-law of Lynn and the late Robert, sister and sister-in-law of Jenny and Geoff, Adrienne, Trevor and Margaret, Ross and Shiona, Kelvin and Liz, aunt of 10, great aunt of 12, a friend of many and a nurse to all. A beautiful loving caring woman taken from us too soon. Messages to 22 Arthurstown Road, RD3, Hokitika 7883 or can be left on Mary’s tribute page at www.thompsonfd.co.nz. A private cremation has been held.
Mary Susan Montagu (nee Butler)
by hendrix_nz | Aug 23, 2021 | recentdeaths | 137 comments
So sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. Your pain and grief makes my heart ache
May you rest now forever in peace. Such a beautiful person. Fly free Mary
You will be missed such a beautiful soul. RIP Mary
Our deepest sympathy to Warren and family. We were so sad when we heard the news of Mary’s passing. Such a lovely lady who we loved meeting at the nursery. Rest easy now, Mary.
Forever in our hearts Aunty Mary ❤❤❤❤❤❤ will be missed dearly LOVE YOU ALWAYS XxOo
Deepest condolences.
Our thoughts are with Warren,Kate, Jade and families. Mary was a beautiful, caring lady who will be greatly missed.
Adrienne Dimmick and Tony Arnold
Warren and family, Deepest sympathy to you all. Thinking of you. Dianne and Chris Ward
Sorry to hear the loss of a wonderful wife, mum and Nana.
R.i.p. Mary.
Take care Kate and family x
Paulette Joel and Holly Arnold
Warren and family thinking of you with sympathy love and sadness at this time Mary was a beautiful person. Fond memories RIP Mary
Warren, Jade, Kate, and family – sending you my sincerest condolences from afar. The loss of Mary is heartbreaking and unfathomable. Mary was the kindest most beautiful soul, a gentle loving and warm person always. You were all wonderful neighbours to us for many years, and this is unthinkable. Please know that many people are thinking of you during this incredibly difficult time of grief. May Mary rest in peace and be free of anguish. With deepest sympathies and sending you my love, Sabrina
My deepest sympathy to Warren and family for the sad loss of Mary. She was such a lovely lady and will be sadly missed by all who knew her. Will miss our chats at the garden centre
Robert Hooker
Mary will forever be sadly missed by us All!
Deepest condolences to Warren, Kate, Jade and extended family!
Rest In Peace Mary! xo
Our deepest condolences to Warren and Family. RIP Mary
Deepest condolences to Warren and Family. Our hearts ache for you all at this very sad difficult time. Fly High Mary a beautiful bubble Lady always smiling. Will be missed by everyone
Sending love to you Lyn Warren Jade Kate and family.
My heart felt grief for you and Mary’s many friends and colleagues.
She will be remembered and missed.
My heartfelt condolences to all of Mary’s family and friends. One of the kindest souls I was ever lucky enough to work with. The kindness shown to me when I was new to the West Coast by Mary, and the on going support over the years will never be forgotten ❤️
So sorry to hear of this sad, sudden loss of Mary. I know there is not really anything anyone can say to take the pain away. Sending love and strength to her family and friends.
So sorry to read this sad news, I enjoyed my chats with Mary at the nursery. Taken way too young! My thoughts and sincere condolences to Warren and the family.
Very sad 2 hear this sad sad time R.I P Mary gr8 Nurse.
Deepest sympathy to Warren and family at this very sad time. Words cannot say enough to comfort you at this tragic time. Always a pleasure to meet Mary when we have visited the nursery over the years
So so sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. Ours thoughts are with you all at such a sad time. I always enjoyed my chats with Mary
Our condolences to Warren and family!
So sad taken way to soon.
Doug & Vonnie Cherry
Deepest sympathy to Warren and family at this very sad time..Mary was a wonderful lady
So sorry to hear this news . Sending best wishes, condolences and respect to Warren and kin .
Our deepest sympathy at this very sad time, Mary was a great nurse, and such a beautiful caring lady. Our heart breaks for you all that knew her. ?
My thoughts are with all the family at this very sad time. Such a big loss and will be missed within the nursing community. Fly free Mary♥️♥️??
So sorry to hear of Marys passing, what an amazing lady, I will remember your beautiful kindness you gave us trough your nursing, Rest in love Mary xxxx lots of love to the families
So sad to hear of Mary’s passing loved my chats with her taken too soon and will be missed deepest sympathies to Warren and families
Our deepest sympathy to Warren and family. Mary was such a warm and beautiful lady, will miss her smile and our chats. Rest easy Mary, you will be missed.❤
So sad to hear this news, sending all our love to Warren and the family.
Joan, Stuart and Dale Thompson x
So sorry to learn of Mary’s passing. Such a lovely caring lady. Our condolences to Warren and families.
Devastated to hear of Mary’s passing. She was such a beautiful kind person. Sincere condolences to all the family.
Much sympathy and love to Warren, Jade and Kate and families, and wider whanau
Mary was such a welcoming, caring, hard working and genuinely loving and friendly person.
I’ll miss her greatly but remember her infectious laugh and smile when I think of her
RIP Mary
You were admired and loved by a who knew you
Our deepest condolences to the family, so sorry for your loss. I’ll miss seeing Mary out walking Monty and having a wee chat about life.
My thoughts are with you and your family at this time. Mary was a beautiful lady and a wonderful caring nurse and person. I am sure she will be loved and missed by many. Stay strong.
RIP Mary fond memories of you . You were always so helpful love to your whanau
So sorry to hear of Mary’s passing.
Thoughts are with you Warren, Jade & Kate
So sorry to read on the passing of Mary. Always loved seeing her out walking and having the odd chat when we would run into each other. Her lovely smile will be missed when we visit the garden centre. Condolences to Warren & Family.
So sad that I wont see her smiling face at the nursery but remembering her amazing nursing skills and as a work colleague. love to you Warren and family my thoughts are with you all RIP Mary you have touch many with your presence
To Warren and family,
We are so deeply sorry for your loss of such a beautiful caring lady,
Taken so soon
Lots of love to you all
Deepest condolences to Warren and family, my heart breaks for your loss.
May you fly high Mary.
With love
So sorry to hear the sad news of Mary’s sudden passing. She was a lovely soul who will be sadly missed by all who knew her. Rest In Peace, Mary.
To Warren and families. Im so sorry to hear of Marys passing. Your pain must be unbearable. Mary was alway a lovely nurse. Always kind and gentle. As was her nature. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
So sorry to hear of Mary’s passing a lovely lady will her chats in garden centre RIP
To Warren and family.
A beautiful and very sincere lady gone far too soon.
Our deepest sympathies to you all.
RIP Mary.
To Warren and family
So very sorry to hear of Marys sudden passing. She will be sadly missed by all who knew her.
Rest in peace Mary
Deepest sympathy to Warren and family. Words are never enough at times like these. Mary, a very gentle soul, beautiful smile and a peaceful calming presence in many a stressful nursing situation. Always remembered.
So sorry to hear of Mary’s passing condolences to Warren and Family
Thoughts to Mary’s family at this time – a lovely lady that made shopping at the nursery a pleasure,
Deepest sympathy to Warren and family
Such a beautiful caring lady RIP Mary.
Warren and Family
My thoughts are with you all, at this sad time.
Fly High Mary.
So sorry and extremely sad to hear of the loss of such a beautiful, caring and gentle woman. We shall miss our lovely chats and advice given at the garden centre. We shall miss you Mary. We feel for your great loss and grief. Love Mark and Sarah (Hokitika)
so so sorry to hear of Mary’s passing she had such a caring nature and was very kind to all nursing staff and patients alike.
I will miss her deeply as you will Warren and extended family and dog. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time. R.I.P. Mary
My deepest sympathies, Warren. So sorry to hear of your loss
So sorry to hear of Mary’s passing Mary had a lovely smile & a gentle nature Rest easy now Mary My thoughts are with her family Xx
RIP Mary, such an excellent nurse and lovely person. I enjoyed working with you
Our deepest sympathy Warren and family at this very difficult time as you grieve the sudden loss of Mary. May the happy memories of Mary help bring a smile.
My deepest condolences to Warren, Jade and Kate, and their families
Mary and I started our nursing training on the same day and in the same class. Even when the classes split into their different directions, Mary remained interested and caring about her colleagues that she no longer saw on a daily basi, and this has continued for almost 40 years.
As a Nurse Mary was outstanding, and well regarded by her patients and peers
As a person, lovely, gentle, and caring. What a huge loss, to you, and to all who knew her. I feel blessed to have done so
Fly high Mary, may you forever rest in peace.
To Warren, Jade & kate I’m so devastated to hear about the sudden passing of dear Mary she was such a fantastic, kind, loving soul, she will be so sadly missed. Take care sending lots of love xx
My thoughts to whānau, my heart to Mary. A wonderful, kind, gentle and beautiful lady. A nurse through and through, we will miss you. Fly high Mary xxxx
Our thoughts and condolences to Warren his family at this time. So sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. She was a gentle soul who was always so helpful and genuine.
Such good memories of the lovely Mary and her warm smile and personality and the fun times we shared back in the day at Toxicology Wallaceville. My thoughts are with you Warren and your family.
To Warren, Jade,Kate and families, my deepest sympathy on the loss of Mary. Such a wonderful compassionate person who will be missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her.
So very sad to hear of Mary’s passing, She was taken too soon, such a loving, helpful and caring lady. Rest In Peace.
My love and condolences go out to you and your family Warren.
Bless you all.
Thinking of you all, our deepest sympathies to Warren, Jade and Kate and their families, Mary was lovely – gentle, helpful in the shop and a great nurse. I loved her twinkly smile. Will be thinking of you in your journey through grief and loss. May the love and support from family and friends support you through this time,
We send our love at this deeply painful time. We will miss seeing Mary out walking. Sending love and strength to you all.
So very sad to read of Mary’s passing, such a lovely lady and awesome nurse gone way to soon sincere condolences to all of Mary’s family
So sad, no words can express my feelings. A great nurse, colleague, and will be greatly missed by many.
Love to the family.
So sorry to read about Mary’s passing.Beautiful lady gone too soon.My sympathies to all the family.
Warren , jade, Kate & family so sorry for your loss. Mary was a beautiful lady remember the good times.?
I’m so very sorry to hear this sad news about Mary. My thoughts are with you Warren, Jade, Kate and all your family.
Our heartfelt condolences to you all at this tragic time Mary was a wonderful and caring person who will be missed by all
Heartfelt condolences to you Kate and your family at this tragic time. I was deeply saddened to hear of Mary’s passing. We often crossed paths out walking and would chat about our wee grandsons Oliver and Noah. Big love to you all.
My condolences to all of marys family. i am deeply saddened by your loss .mary was a beautiful caring nurse and person that I had the pleasure of working with. I have special memories down the Beach ..that will be forever in my heart. ❤
Thinking of you all at this sad time. Mary was a lovely lady.
Warren and family, we are so sorry to hear of Mary’s passing.
Please accept our deepest sympathy at this very sad and difficult time to the Montagu family.
Thank you Mary for your kindness over the years.
A lovely lady taken too soon.
RIP Mary.
Doug and Yvonne Cochrane.?
So very sad , Mary was a lovely , gentle , caring lady who always had a kind word for everyone. . Condolences to Warren and family.
Our sincere condolences to Warren, Jade and Kate and her family. Mary will be sorely missed. She was always kind, welcoming and her advice at the nursery was greatly appreciated. Loved bumping into her when walking the dog on the beach! RIP Mary!
To Warren and Families devastated by your loss. Mary was a very charming and lovely person and will be missed.
our heartfelt sympathy to you all Tom & Bev Clarkson
Deepest sympathy to you all.Such a lovely lady to have known.RIP Mary.
So very sorry for you loss. She was a beautiful person inside and out.
Lots of love to the family. RIP Mary…
Such very very sad news to hear, thinking of Warren and family. Mary was a beautiful lady.
So sorry for the family. Peter and I enjoyed meeting and chatting to Mary many times. Such a lovely friend.
My deepest sympathy to all of the family my thoughts are with you Kate take care beautiful Mary was such a beautiful lady will be missed RIP Mary lots of love Gail White
So sorry to hear of the sudden loss of Mary. Such a lovely lady. Always enjoyed talking to Mary at the nursery. Our love to Warren and family.
Deeply saddened to read of Mary’s passing. Such a gentle, lovely lady. My thoughts are with Warren and family.
Warren, Jade & Kate & families. Sending our thoughts and condolences for the loss of a very special woman. We recall the many chats whilst at the nursery around our purchases, our respective children and life in general. May she rest easy. Kia Kaha
What a lovely , welcoming smile you would get from Mary whenever you set foot into the Southside nursery. Such a shock to hear of her sudden passing. She will be missed by us all. May the love of the many who knew
her surround you , Warren and your family at this time ?
Dear Warren and family. I am sad and so shocked and sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. Know that God is holding you all in His loving and caring arms and bringing you comfort and support.
We are so saddened to hear of the sudden passing of Mary. She was a lovely person with so much integrity. She will be greatly missed. Our sincere condolences to Warren and families.
Love and thoughts to the family at this incredibly sad time. RIP Mary.
All our love and thoughts to Warren, Jade, Kate and family. Mary was such a special lady, and my beautiful cousin.
The day we heard the news our resident Fantail had a companion with her in our garden. I’m sure Mary will be close to you all wherever you go and be watching over the gorgeous grandchildren.
I will plant something special in my garden as a living memory of Mary.
Our sincere sympathy to you Warren and family on the sudden loss of Mary
Mary was a skilled nurse and will be greatly missed in that role in our community We will miss our chats with. you Mary Rest in Peace
So saddened by this news – a loving caring person who will be so sadly missed. Our deepest sympathy to you Warren and all the family. Rest in peace dear Mary.
Dear Warren and Family, our most heartfelt sympathy to you all. Mary will be very sadly missed. Our thoughts are with you.
Mark, Maria and Family
Condolences to Warren and family on the very sad loss of beautiful Mary, a gentle soul gone way too soon. We will miss the laughs we shared on our visits to your nursery. May your family find strength in each other to face the depth of your loss.
Allanah and Paul Turner
So sad to hear of Mary’s passing, she was a lovely lady. Sincere sympathy to you all. Mary will be sadly missed.
Dear Mary, a special friend and wonderful work colleague. So caring, so kind, so thoughtful, so gentle, so respected. Our hearts are sad for you, Warren, Jade and Kate. We will treasure all the wonderful memories. Love you, xoxo
So sorry to hear of your loss. Mary was a lovely lady. I always enjoyed our chats when we visited the nursery. Thinking of you all.
Such shocking and terribly sad news – love and deepest condolences to Warren and your family. What an enormous hole Mary will leave in so many lives. As you say, a beautiful loving caring woman taken way too soon. xxx
Our deepest condolences to all the family, who will be lost without you. We often crossed paths and catch up on each other’s lives. With a heart like Mary’s, she’ll be greatly loved and missed by many including your neighbors. Lou, Dean & Isabel.
So sorry to hear, Mary always brightened up your day. Will be missed by the whole community
.We are really sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. We are thinking of you all at this sad time.
Andy and Annette
Rest in peace Mary
Such a cool lady
Arohanui
So shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Mary’s passing, she was always a pleasure to meet, so genuinely interested, engaged and caring in conversation. She will be greatly missed by all.
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My heartfelt sympathy to you Warren, Jade and Kate and family, and friends and colleagues.
Fly high Mary. RIP.
Special thoughts to Warren Kate and Jade and families. And Lynne. Such a sad time for you all in the sudden passing of a wonderful lady .Mary you were admired and loved by many. You will be so missed by family and friends cos your mana was admired in so many ways and your caring loving manner always present. Sincere sympathy to all in grief
So very, very sad to hear of Mary’s passing. She was a lovely person. Our heartfelt and sincere sympathy to you all at this very hard time for your family.
Rest In Peace Mary. Such a beautiful and kind soul. Our hearts are heavy, our thoughts are with all your family.
So shocked and saddened to hear of Mary’s sudden departure. Such a beautiful lady gone too soon. Sending my deepest condolences to you all.
I am very sad to hear of Mary’s death.
I will always remember Mary from playgroup days – in the Grey Valley, such a warm & special person. Love to Warren, Jade, Kate and family.
Hearing about Mary made me so very sad. I have great memories of Mary and Warren when they were our neighbours at Nelson Creek. Biggest of hugs to you Warren, Jade, Kate and family
Very very sad to hear of the passing of a lovely , kind lady..always so helpful. Gone to soon..Condolences to the family at this sad time…remember all those wonderful memories and the laughter too..
Our hearts go out to you, Warren and to your family. What a beautiful and kind lady your Mary was. Thinking of you all.
Remembering with love my dear kind happy niece Mary.
Warren, you and Mary were a lovely couple and have a lovely family. Deepest sympathy and love to you all.
Craig, Sandra, Natasha, Samuel, Angel Katelyn.
We are deeply saddened by your loss. A truly remarkable, caring individual who will be sadly missed.
We’ll catch you all up after lockdown.
Our thoughts are with you all.
Heartfelt sympathy to you all for the loss of your lovely Mary. ?
Sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. She will be dearly missed. Thinking of you all.
Thinking of you all at this sad time. Mary was such a loving and caring nurse and a wonderful person. Warren, Jade, Kate, Lynne and family we are sending you love and hugs at this difficult time. May you forever Rest In Peace Mary. Xx
We grew together amongst a bunch of young ones in the good-natured village of Wallaceville.
That was forty-plus years ago. Formative years, first careers, explored options, shared experiences and finding friends…some for life…
Amongst distance and family and work, from time to time, a reconnection.
With a hug and kiss on the happy occasion of meeting up again, so refreshing, in so many ways.
You embodied empathy, perhaps the hardest of habits. I worry whether I acknowledged it enough or not.
But without question, one of the foundation blocks my life and many others, are built-on… is you.
Condolences to warren and family, Mary’s loss will leave a huge hole in the lives of all those who new her. Gone far too soon I remember Mary as a quiet gentle and caring lady who I also had the pleasure of working with mary years ago as well may she rest in peace .
I always enjoyed a chat with Mary at the garden centre, catching up on each others kids. Such a gentle soul. Wishing you all strength for to day and hope for tomorrow. Treasure the memories.
So sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. Condolences and love to you Warren, Jade and Kate and your wider families. Mary was such a lovely, friendly person and I always enjoyed chatting with her at the nursery or on the beach, often about what our children were doing. May your memories give you strength in the days ahead.
Warren, Jade, Kate and all of Mary’s family. We were so shocked and so so saddened to hear of Mary’s passing. Please know that our thoughts and sympathy are with you all at this very difficult time.
So enjoyed chatting with Mary over the counter about the state of nursing …
She was forever helpful … finding the right plant … a sad loss for all.
Dear Warren and family. So sorry to hear about your great loss. Mary will be sorely missed. I didn’t know her well, but always enjoyed a chat, in the nursery, or when she was out walking the dog or lately, her grandchild in a pram. My thoughts are with you.
So sorry to hear of Mary’s passing .Thinking of all her family. Especially remember her as a special nurse Always great to talk to her during our visits to the nursery .
It was the saddest news to be told of your passing Mary as you had so much love and caring for everyone you came in contact with – a truly beautiful woman and nursing was your gift.
Lynne and Warren Jade and Kate / I send my deepest sympathy
Donna and Geoff
She was a beautiful person. My condolences to you and your family.
Such a sad time for everyone. Our sincere condolences. What a privilege to have worked alongside such wonderful nurse. So kind and compassionate. Mary what a legacy you leave behind. Rest In Peace Nurse Montagu
Such a beautiful soul. Thoughts are with her family. RIP Mary.
Sending condolences to Mary’s family from America. We met Mary just before the Pandemic when we purchased a carloads of flowers for our planters at our Hokitika home. I will always remember how lovely it was to walk around the nursery and shop for flowers with Mary. Mary, even knowing you so briefly, we will always remember you. May you rest in beautiful gardens of peace.
We were so sorry and sad to hear of Mary’s passing. Such a beautiful, kind and caring soul and loved by many. Treasured memories. Our heartfelt sympathy to Warren, Jade, Kate and family. Rest in peace Mary. Love Chris, Kelly and Hannah
We are thinking of you at this sad sad time Warren and family. Mary was well loved by so many.
So sad to hear of your passing Mary, your smile always had warmth kindness. Rest in peace and enjoy the heavenly garden now. Condolences to Warren and family.
So sad to hear tonight of the tragic news of Mary’s passing. Sincerest sympathies from the Gerbeaux family. Kia kaha Warren and family.
My deepest sympathy for Warren and family. I loved chatting to Mary, she was a beautiful and kind person. She will be missed greatly. Thinking of you all.
Just heard of the sad news of Mary’s passing. Our condolences to all of Mary’s relations.
Love,
Mark, Valerie, Ciara and Roisin Dwyer Ennis Ireland
(Friends of Neville, Diana, Jenny, Adrienne and Trevor)